# 10 Rule: Use all of the room. Your room was made to accommodate you. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Your rooms are there to serve you for your pleasure.
# 9 Rule: Adding to #10 Rule, use all of the room, use all of the room in a color that sends you over the moon. Be careful and consider the color, you will be in this room for quite a while. FYI, living and dining rooms are updated every five to seven years, bedrooms a little more often. But even six weeks in a poorly painted space could make you very sad.
# 8 Rule: Do not be afraid of white space. (This is a term borrowed from printers) white space is often referred to as negative space. It is the space that allows you to see everything else in the room. In other words, don't give in to clutter, she is a buzz killer.
# 7 Rule: Go in feet first; be mindful of the floor. What is on your floor? Do you have a wonderful surface like beautiful hardwood polished to a high sheen? Do you have fabulous porcelain tile? Or, do you have a plain simple carpet that is so bashful it is hardly noticed? Consider the virtue of a rug, 8 x 10, more or less depending on the space. She can bring such joy. She can amplify the patterns in the room, bring fun, sophistication, and glamour or just quiet the space down. She has the ability to make or break a room, be careful not to overlook her.
# 6 Rule: Now, where are you going to sit? Can everyone see the tv? Can everyone see each other? Stadium/theater seating is good for theaters and stadiums, not for living spaces. Is there a lonely chair isolated in the corner? Get it away from there. Inevitably, you will have a gathering and the most socially awkward person will find a way to sit in that lonely corner all night long. What kind of party host are you to let that happen?
# 5 Rule: Do you have a place for your phone, drink, book, and glasses? Tables matter. Choose yours with care. The thing about tables, unless you dance on them, they are with you for quite some time, have fun with them. They come in so many styles and so many materials that it is hard to make a mistake. The largest mistake you can make is to not have one of these hard workers placed strategically in your room so that you don't have to use your lap as a table top. The second mistake is having a table too short or too tall, who wants to reach up or down when you aren't at exercise or dancing?
# 4 Rule: Light it up. Three action words lamps, lamps, lamps, nothing is more insidious than an obnoxious overhead light. Besides the fact that these ornery spots in the center of the ceiling can make you look old and color your skin gray, if they are too bright you will become fatigued. Don't forget your windows. Dress them for success. Hardware store shades and blinds are great for emergency privacy, dorm spaces and bachelor pads, real rooms need real window treatments.
# 3 Rule: Artwork, refer to #10, use all of the room. The average height of sofas and chairs is 40 inches. That means there is a lot of room at the top. The artwork is the breath of life for your space. It is also one of the only components that can be completely independent of everything else in the room. Art is your voice, use it.
# 2 Rule: Accessories, now this can be tricky. Only use those things that you love that are appropriate to the space. Remember rule #8, it also applies here. Never underestimate how sneaky Miss Clutter is. She will take over a tabletop or corner the minute your head is turned.
# 1 Rule: Go back to #10 Rule and live, live, live graciously in your beautiful space.